In general, if you must choose between performance and kindness, choose kindness. Any feat has numerous people who achieve it every year. Leaves upon leaves pile up throughout history and beyond. Rare are individuals who would lend a hand to another knowing they would fall short as a result. What they lack in strategy they make up in heart and soul. They know the true purpose of Sun Tzu's strategies. They know that just because you can doesn't mean you should.